ArrowArray::try_from_raw should not assume the pointers are from Arc

[viirya]

Describe the bug

ArrowArray::try_from_raw now uses Arc::from_raw to construct the two pointers to the C Data Interface (ArrowArray and ArrowSchema) back to the structs.

But the two pointers could be from other language runtime (e.g. JVM). We've been using the ffi API to pass Arrow Arrays from JVM to Rust. Sometimes we see fatal error reported at JVM (SIGILL). After digging it deeper, we found that sometimes Arc::from_raw on the pointers gives a Arc pointer with strong reference count reaching the maximum limit.

As the pointer is from JVM, it is not produced by Arc::into_raw, the offset calculation in Arc::from_raw simply doesn't work and can get into wrong values for the strong value in ArcInner.

I think that ArrowArray::try_from_raw should not assume the pointers are from Arc. They should be considered as just raw pointers to the C Data Interface.

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