Arrow CSV writer should not fail when cannot cast the value

[comphead]

Is your feature request related to a problem or challenge? Please describe what you are trying to do.

Original problem reported in apache/datafusion#4947
Arrow writer uses .unwrap() on options and fails when cast is not succeeded

thread 'main' panicked at 'called `Option::unwrap()` on a `None` value', src/jackfan.us.kg-1ecc6299db9ec823/arrow-csv-30.0.1/src/writer.rs:262:18

Describe the solution you'd like
Investigate on better options

• fail with meaningful error
• return and display the error as part of output

Describe alternatives you've considered

Additional context

[comphead]

in old spark versions, if timestamp cast cannot be done then null returned that was really confusing, we should consider a runtime error if such invalid cast happened

[comphead]

@tustvold @alamb please assign this to me

[tustvold]

label_issue.py automatically added labels {'arrow'} from #3570