[Feature][Zeta] Unify the triggering logic of job status related events

[Hisoka-X]

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Description

We already supported define some lifecycle event type.

But only FakeSource support produce these event.

seatunnel/seatunnel-connectors-v2/connector-fake/src/main/java/org/apache/seatunnel/connectors/seatunnel/fake/source/FakeSourceReader.java

Line 77 in 1bba723

context.getEventListener().onEvent(new ReaderOpenEvent());

We should support produce event in engine side, not connector side. Eg:
Produce reader open event in where invoke open method.

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[zhangshenghang]

Can be assigned to me and I will complete it , thanks