Possibility to use athena via CalledVia option - no glue api calls/ no s3 calls

[nicor88]

In order to support the CalledVia option for athena, we need to introduce new flags that allow a native behavior to create/insert data into tables.

In order to do so we need to have additional flags:

• native_drop: table is dropped via "drop" DML in athena, in case of iceberg we use the native s3 path dropping, as iceber tables are managed
  - use_information_schema: allow to fetch glue tables details via information schema, pretty much means merging what was done in feat: use glue api instead of information_schema to retrieve table info #174 with 2 behaviours
• allow seeds without s3 upload -> fix: seed method upload or insert #283, flag name to agree

Regarding the usage of information schema, after discussing with @brabste we agreed that we use of information schema is not necessary, as we can use glue apis - and we avoid still direct access to S3 data.

[brabster]

Mentioned in athena infra, happy to close.