[ci] split validation of expected repo state into separate tasks

[spalger]

When we first started bootstrapping in CI we added validation after bootstrap that there weren't any changes to the repo (specifically concerned about the yarn.lock file) after running yarn kbn bootstrap. This method of verification has been extended to a number of other tasks which run a build script and validate that there aren't any additional changes after running that script. We should really break those out into separate tasks so that they are identified as the actual failed task in the PR report, they don't trigger additional bootstraps (because retries) and they can be reported as Github Status Checks if desired.

[elasticmachine]

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