[SPARK-34609][SQL] Unify resolveExpressionBottomUp and resolveExpress…

…ionTopDown

### What changes were proposed in this pull request?

It's a bit confusing to see `resolveExpressionBottomUp` and `resolveExpressionTopDown`, which provide similar functionalities but with different tree traverse order. It turns out that the real difference between these 2 methods is: which attributes should the columns be resolved to? `resolveExpressionTopDown` resolves columns using output attributes of the plan children, `resolveExpressionBottomUp` resolves columns using output attributes of the plan itself.

This PR unifies `resolveExpressionBottomUp` and `resolveExpressionTopDown` and put the common logic in a new method, and let `resolveExpressionBottomUp` and `resolveExpressionTopDown` just call the new method. This PR also renames `resolveExpressionBottomUp` and `resolveExpressionTopDown` to make the difference clear.

### Why are the changes needed?

code cleanup

### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?

no

### How was this patch tested?

existing tests

Closes apache#31728 from cloud-fan/resolve.

Authored-by: Wenchen Fan <[email protected]>
Signed-off-by: Wenchen Fan <[email protected]>