need new method Sniffer::has_message_type_with_remove

[plebhash]

while reviewing #1325 we detected the need for a new Sniffer method for Integration Tests

this should help us avoid repeating assertions across multiple tests with the sole purpose of popping from the Sniffer queue

@jbesraa wrote this draft on Discord:

    fn has_message_type_with_remove(&self, message_type: u8) -> bool {
        let has_message: bool = self
            .messages
            .safe_lock(|messages| {
                for (t, _) in messages.iter() {
                    if *t == message_type {
                        messages.retain(|(_, _)| false);
                        return true; // Exit early with `true`
                    }
                }
                false // Default value if no match is found
            })
            .unwrap();
        has_message
    }