diff --git a/pkg/executor/cte.go b/pkg/executor/cte.go
index 9928bc652b639..72c8d17cb976b 100644
--- a/pkg/executor/cte.go
+++ b/pkg/executor/cte.go
@@ -112,15 +112,24 @@ func (e *CTEExec) Next(ctx context.Context, req *chunk.Chunk) (err error) {
 
 // Close implements the Executor interface.
 func (e *CTEExec) Close() (err error) {
-	e.producer.resTbl.Lock()
-	if !e.producer.closed {
-		// closeProducer() only close seedExec and recursiveExec, will not touch resTbl.
-		// It means you can still read resTbl after call closeProducer().
-		// You can even call all three functions(openProducer/produce/closeProducer) in CTEExec.Next().
-		// Separating these three function calls is only to follow the abstraction of the volcano model.
-		err = e.producer.closeProducer()
-	}
-	e.producer.resTbl.Unlock()
+	func() {
+		e.producer.resTbl.Lock()
+		defer e.producer.resTbl.Unlock()
+		if !e.producer.closed {
+			failpoint.Inject("mock_cte_exec_panic_avoid_deadlock", func(v failpoint.Value) {
+				ok := v.(bool)
+				if ok {
+					// mock an oom panic, returning ErrMemoryExceedForQuery for error identification in recovery work.
+					panic(exeerrors.ErrMemoryExceedForQuery)
+				}
+			})
+			// closeProducer() only close seedExec and recursiveExec, will not touch resTbl.
+			// It means you can still read resTbl after call closeProducer().
+			// You can even call all three functions(openProducer/produce/closeProducer) in CTEExec.Next().
+			// Separating these three function calls is only to follow the abstraction of the volcano model.
+			err = e.producer.closeProducer()
+		}
+	}()
 	if err != nil {
 		return err
 	}
diff --git a/pkg/executor/cte_test.go b/pkg/executor/cte_test.go
index 4133e4401ed97..1daa4199680fe 100644
--- a/pkg/executor/cte_test.go
+++ b/pkg/executor/cte_test.go
@@ -27,6 +27,7 @@ import (
 	"github.com/stretchr/testify/require"
 )
 
+<<<<<<< HEAD
 func TestBasicCTE(t *testing.T) {
 	store := testkit.CreateMockStore(t)
 
@@ -346,6 +347,37 @@ func TestCTEWithLimit(t *testing.T) {
 	rows.Check(testkit.Rows("3", "4", "3"))
 	rows = tk.MustQuery("with recursive cte1(c1) as (select c1 from t1 union all select c1 + 1 from cte1 limit 4 offset 4) select * from cte1;")
 	rows.Check(testkit.Rows("3", "4", "3", "4"))
+=======
+func TestCTEIssue49096(t *testing.T) {
+	store := testkit.CreateMockStore(t)
+	tk := testkit.NewTestKit(t, store)
+
+	tk.MustExec("use test;")
+	require.NoError(t, failpoint.Enable("github.com/pingcap/tidb/pkg/executor/mock_cte_exec_panic_avoid_deadlock", "return(true)"))
+	defer func() {
+		require.NoError(t, failpoint.Disable("github.com/pingcap/tidb/pkg/executor/mock_cte_exec_panic_avoid_deadlock"))
+	}()
+	insertStr := "insert into t1 values(0)"
+	rowNum := 10
+	vals := make([]int, rowNum)
+	vals[0] = 0
+	for i := 1; i < rowNum; i++ {
+		v := rand.Intn(100)
+		vals[i] = v
+		insertStr += fmt.Sprintf(", (%d)", v)
+	}
+	tk.MustExec("drop table if exists t1, t2;")
+	tk.MustExec("create table t1(c1 int);")
+	tk.MustExec("create table t2(c1 int);")
+	tk.MustExec(insertStr)
+	// should be insert statement, otherwise it couldn't step int resetCTEStorageMap in handleNoDelay func.
+	sql := "insert into t2 with cte1 as ( " +
+		"select c1 from t1) " +
+		"select c1 from cte1 natural join (select * from cte1 where c1 > 0) cte2 order by c1;"
+	err := tk.ExecToErr(sql)
+	require.NotNil(t, err)
+	require.Equal(t, "[executor:8175]Your query has been cancelled due to exceeding the allowed memory limit for a single SQL query. Please try narrowing your query scope or increase the tidb_mem_quota_query limit and try again.[conn=%d]", err.Error())
+>>>>>>> 0c7659c1907 (executor: fix deadlock in dml statement with cte when oom panic action was triggered (#49192))
 }
 
 func TestSpillToDisk(t *testing.T) {
diff --git a/pkg/util/cteutil/BUILD.bazel b/pkg/util/cteutil/BUILD.bazel
index eaeb81968a4ba..cd8010f53d966 100644
--- a/pkg/util/cteutil/BUILD.bazel
+++ b/pkg/util/cteutil/BUILD.bazel
@@ -10,6 +10,7 @@ go_library(
         "//pkg/util/chunk",
         "//pkg/util/disk",
         "//pkg/util/memory",
+        "//pkg/util/syncutil",
         "@com_github_pingcap_errors//:errors",
     ],
 )
diff --git a/pkg/util/cteutil/storage.go b/pkg/util/cteutil/storage.go
index a3f334794b2fc..dd172e02b13e7 100644
--- a/pkg/util/cteutil/storage.go
+++ b/pkg/util/cteutil/storage.go
@@ -15,13 +15,12 @@
 package cteutil
 
 import (
-	"sync"
-
 	"github.com/pingcap/errors"
 	"github.com/pingcap/tidb/pkg/types"
 	"github.com/pingcap/tidb/pkg/util/chunk"
 	"github.com/pingcap/tidb/pkg/util/disk"
 	"github.com/pingcap/tidb/pkg/util/memory"
+	"github.com/pingcap/tidb/pkg/util/syncutil"
 )
 
 var _ Storage = &StorageRC{}
@@ -99,7 +98,7 @@ type StorageRC struct {
 	refCnt  int
 	chkSize int
 	iter    int
-	mu      sync.Mutex
+	mu      syncutil.Mutex
 	done    bool
 }