Implement iterator-based subset()

[krlmlr]

for e.g. slice() with negative indices: Currently, the entire list of positive indices is materialized, this makes e.g. slice(-1) unnecessarily slow.

[romainfrancois]

I think this has been taken care of with the refactoring of slice as part of #3492.

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