feat: show better parse error in build

[sapphi-red]

Description

We have a better error message for this case in dev: vuejs/vitepress#3076
But we didn't have this for build.
This PR adds the better message for build.

Also I made the error message to skip the code frame if the code is probably a binary. (e.g. importing .awebp, .ai)

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What is the purpose of this pull request?

• Bug fix
• New Feature
• Documentation update
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