Feature Request: Add the ability to skip a list of tablets to pick in the TabletPicker

[pbibra]

Feature Description

There are certain cases during a VTGate VStream where we pick a tablet, the stream fails and we exit immediately before retrying another tablet. An example of this are GTID mismatch errors. In these cases, the tablet is healthy so a client retry may choose the same one (especially if there's only one tablet in the same cell as the vtgate as we have a local cell preference by default) and fail on a GTID mismatch again. Instead, we'd like to retry with a list of tablets to omit from the viable candidates that the TabletPicker chooses from.

Use Case(s)

More resilient VStream RPCs that effectively retry when appropriate.

For example, GTID mismatch errors, un-healthy, or NOT_FOUND tablet errors for Vitess version that will not have this fix: #13582