feat: update depedencies

[Mirko-von-Leipzig]

Closes #471.

Unfortunately less exciting of an update than I hoped, essentially just tonic had any impact; and replaced the once_cell with std variants.

Some exceptions:

• rusqlite is blocked by deadpool-sqlite, I'm subscribed to the PR updating this
• The ecosystem has moved to http v1 but we still have v0.2.12 from actix-web usage in node and faucet binaries. I recommend moving these to axum which is/has become more of the industry standard imo.
• miden-miette and various miden-xxx have some outdated deps, don't think anything serious though.

i.e. a couple of deps held back by rusqlite's pool manager, a few other ones by miden internal libs, and quite a lot of somewhat major updates prevented by using actix.

List of dependencies that we cannot upgrade but that have updates

$ cargo update --verbose

   Unchanged addr2line v0.22.0 (latest: v0.24.1)
   Unchanged bindgen v0.69.4 (latest: v0.70.1)
   Unchanged bit-set v0.5.3 (latest: v0.8.0)
   Unchanged bit-vec v0.6.3 (latest: v0.8.0)
   Unchanged convert_case v0.4.0 (latest: v0.6.0)
   Unchanged cookie v0.16.2 (latest: v0.18.1)
   Unchanged derive_more v0.99.18 (latest: v1.0.0)
   Unchanged event-listener v2.5.3 (latest: v5.3.1)
   Unchanged fixedbitset v0.4.2 (latest: v0.5.7)
   Unchanged generic-array v0.14.7 (latest: v1.1.0)
   Unchanged gimli v0.29.0 (latest: v0.31.0)
   Unchanged h2 v0.3.26 (latest: v0.4.6)
   Unchanged hashbrown v0.12.3 (latest: v0.14.5)
   Unchanged hermit-abi v0.3.9 (latest: v0.4.0)
   Unchanged http v0.2.12 (latest: v1.1.0)
   Unchanged idna v0.5.0 (latest: v1.0.2)
   Unchanged indexmap v1.9.3 (latest: v2.4.0)
   Unchanged itertools v0.11.0 (latest: v0.13.0)
   Unchanged itertools v0.12.1 (latest: v0.13.0)
   Unchanged lalrpop v0.20.2 (latest: v0.21.0)
   Unchanged lalrpop-util v0.20.2 (latest: v0.21.0)
   Unchanged libsqlite3-sys v0.28.0 (latest: v0.30.1)
   Unchanged linux-raw-sys v0.4.14 (latest: v0.6.5)
   Unchanged matchers v0.1.0 (latest: v0.2.0)
   Unchanged matchit v0.7.3 (latest: v0.8.4)
   Unchanged miniz_oxide v0.7.4 (latest: v0.8.0)
   Unchanged nu-ansi-term v0.46.0 (latest: v0.50.1)
   Unchanged path-slash v0.1.5 (latest: v0.2.1)
   Unchanged phf_shared v0.10.0 (latest: v0.11.2)
   Unchanged quick-error v1.2.3 (latest: v2.0.1)
   Unchanged regex-automata v0.1.10 (latest: v0.4.7)
   Unchanged regex-syntax v0.6.29 (latest: v0.8.4)
   Unchanged rusqlite v0.31.0 (latest: v0.32.1)
   Unchanged rustc-hash v1.1.0 (latest: v2.0.0)
   Unchanged rustc_version v0.2.3 (latest: v0.4.1)
   Unchanged semver v0.9.0 (latest: v1.0.23)
   Unchanged semver-parser v0.7.0 (latest: v0.10.2)
   Unchanged siphasher v0.3.11 (latest: v1.0.1)
   Unchanged sync_wrapper v0.1.2 (latest: v1.0.1)
   Unchanged term v0.7.0 (latest: v1.0.0)
   Unchanged tower v0.4.13 (latest: v0.5.0)
   Unchanged vte v0.11.1 (latest: v0.13.0)
   Unchanged wasi v0.11.0+wasi-snapshot-preview1 (latest: v0.13.2+wasi-0.2.1)
   Unchanged windows-core v0.52.0 (latest: v0.58.0)
   Unchanged windows-sys v0.48.0 (latest: v0.59.0)
   Unchanged windows-sys v0.52.0 (latest: v0.59.0)
   Unchanged windows-targets v0.48.5 (latest: v0.52.6)
   Unchanged windows_aarch64_gnullvm v0.48.5 (latest: v0.52.6)
   Unchanged windows_aarch64_msvc v0.48.5 (latest: v0.52.6)
   Unchanged windows_i686_gnu v0.48.5 (latest: v0.52.6)
   Unchanged windows_i686_msvc v0.48.5 (latest: v0.52.6)
   Unchanged windows_x86_64_gnu v0.48.5 (latest: v0.52.6)
   Unchanged windows_x86_64_gnullvm v0.48.5 (latest: v0.52.6)
   Unchanged windows_x86_64_msvc v0.48.5 (latest: v0.52.6)
   Unchanged winter-maybe-async v0.9.0 (latest: v0.10.0)

[bobbinth]

Looks good! Thank you!

Let's create an issue for migrating from actix-web to axum.