Rocksdb performance improvements

[gfukushima]

PR Description

This PR is a alean up after #9059 which was used mostly for tests/deployment. It adds a couple params that are bringing the db to much healthier state. Iterators are performing much better now looking at the timestamps of logs (order of ms against minutes using the current config).
Example:

"@timestamp":"2025-02-03T22:52:44,526","level":"DEBUG","thread":"CombinedStorageChannel-0","class":"CombinedKvStoreDao","message":"Fetching earliest beacon block from db","throwable":""}
{"@timestamp":"2025-02-03T22:52:44,585","level":"DEBUG","thread":"CombinedStorageChannel-0","class":"CombinedKvStoreDao","message":"Earliest block slot in column: Optional[SignedBeaconBlockDeneb{message=BeaconBlockDeneb{slot=2503200, proposer_index=254597, parent_root=0x09071872d788a160ce5c4f7f01214157a719c2c1ccb80a0114300bc62c691568, state_root=0x44cb56c1b485427921866e3907665bca04ff5c1579af5c48bc742ef925ec4752, body=BeaconBlockBodyDeneb{randao_reveal=SszByteVector{0x97c9b4986e

Increasing the cache allowed to rocksdb hasn't shown any negative impacts on the memory consumption.
Log rotation also helps to keep the amount of log files we keep to a minimum reusing already created ones.

Testing node running these configs usage:

| ----------------------------------- | --------------- | ----------- | --------------- | ---------------- |
| Column Family                       | Keys            | Total Size  | SST Files Size  | Blob Files Size  |
| ----------------------------------- | --------------- | ----------- | --------------- | ---------------- |
| null                                | 14              | 138 MiB     | 138 MiB         | 0 B              |
| HOT_BLOCKS_BY_ROOT                  | 56              | 6 MiB       | 6 MiB           | 0 B              |
| HOT_STATES_BY_ROOT                  | 1               | 138 MiB     | 138 MiB         | 0 B              |
| HOT_BLOCK_CHECKPOINT_EPOCHS_BY_ROOT | 56              | 20 KiB      | 20 KiB          | 0 B              |
| SLOTS_BY_FINALIZED_ROOT             | 969506          | 38 MiB      | 38 MiB          | 0 B              |
| FINALIZED_BLOCKS_BY_SLOT            | 974629          | 35 GiB      | 35 GiB          | 0 B              |
| BLOB_SIDECAR_BY_SLOT_AND_BLOCK_ROOT_AND_BLOB_INDEX | 298522          | 10 GiB      | 10 GiB          | 0 B              |
| ----------------------------------- | --------------- | ----------- | --------------- | ---------------- |
| ESTIMATED TOTAL                     | 2242784         | 45 GiB      | 45 GiB          | 0 B              |
| ----------------------------------- | --------------- | ----------- | --------------- | ---------------- |

Displaying column usage from RocksDB folder /db
| ----------------------------------- | --------------- | ----------- | --------------- | ---------------- |
| Column Family                       | Keys            | Total Size  | SST Files Size  | Blob Files Size  |
| ----------------------------------- | --------------- | ----------- | --------------- | ---------------- |
| null                                | 10              | 256 MiB     | 256 MiB         | 0 B              |
| HOT_BLOCKS_BY_ROOT                  | 63              | 6 MiB       | 6 MiB           | 0 B              |
| STATE_ROOT_TO_SLOT_AND_BLOCK_ROOT   | 6               | 10 KiB      | 10 KiB          | 0 B              |
| HOT_STATES_BY_ROOT                  | 1               | 256 MiB     | 256 MiB         | 0 B              |
| HOT_BLOCK_CHECKPOINT_EPOCHS_BY_ROOT | 63              | 44 KiB      | 44 KiB          | 0 B              |
| SLOTS_BY_FINALIZED_ROOT             | 974595          | 47 MiB      | 47 MiB          | 0 B              |
| FINALIZED_BLOCKS_BY_SLOT            | 973159          | 128 GiB     | 128 GiB         | 0 B              |
| BLOB_SIDECAR_BY_SLOT_AND_BLOCK_ROOT_AND_BLOB_INDEX | 298362          | 77 GiB      | 77 GiB          | 0 B              |
| ----------------------------------- | --------------- | ----------- | --------------- | ---------------- |
| ESTIMATED TOTAL                     | 2246259         | 206 GiB     | 206 GiB         | 0 B              |
| ----------------------------------- | --------------- | ----------- | --------------- | ---------------- |

Memory consumption seems similar to what we currently see on canary-02.

Fixed Issue(s)

Fixes #8939 and #9051

Documentation

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