python3.pkgs.aiomysql: fix build dependency constraints

[tjni]

Description of changes

1. Pull patch that updates setuptools-scm and removes setuptools-scm-git-archive.
2. Add wheel as an explicit build dependency.

Things done

• Built on platform(s)
  • x86_64-linux
  • aarch64-linux
  • x86_64-darwin
  • aarch64-darwin
• For non-Linux: Is sandbox = true set in nix.conf? (See Nix manual)
• Tested, as applicable:
  • NixOS test(s) (look inside nixos/tests)
  • and/or package tests
  • or, for functions and "core" functionality, tests in lib/tests or pkgs/test
  • made sure NixOS tests are linked to the relevant packages
• Tested compilation of all packages that depend on this change using nix-shell -p nixpkgs-review --run "nixpkgs-review rev HEAD". Note: all changes have to be committed, also see nixpkgs-review usage
• Tested basic functionality of all binary files (usually in ./result/bin/)
• 23.11 Release Notes (or backporting 23.05 Release notes)
  • (Package updates) Added a release notes entry if the change is major or breaking
  • (Module updates) Added a release notes entry if the change is significant
  • (Module addition) Added a release notes entry if adding a new NixOS module
• Fits CONTRIBUTING.md.

[matthiasbeyer]

Shouldn't we wait until the PR you linked in the diff lands in a release?

[tjni]

It's unclear when a release will be made, and I need something like that for the work in #247287, because building a package with build validates build dependency constraints. At the moment, the failing constraint is that setuptools-scm in nixpkgs is too recent.

[matthiasbeyer]

Result of nixpkgs-review pr 250206 run on x86_64-linux 1

8 packages marked as broken and skipped:

• python310Packages.orm
• python310Packages.orm.dist
• python310Packages.ormar
• python310Packages.ormar.dist
• python311Packages.orm
• python311Packages.orm.dist
• python311Packages.ormar
• python311Packages.ormar.dist

4 packages built:

• python310Packages.aiomysql
• python310Packages.aiomysql.dist
• python311Packages.aiomysql
• python311Packages.aiomysql.dist