[BugFix] add some defensive codes to table metrics

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Why I'm doing:

What I'm doing:

Fixes https://github.com/StarRocks/StarRocksTest/issues/9217

Add some defensive code for table metrics:

1. under shared_data mode, if the tableId cannot be found from the shard property, return a default table id to avoid crash.
2. In some scenarios, the corresponding table id may not be found in _metrics_map (for example, data load and drop tablet concurrently, dropping tablets occurs first, causing metrics to be cleared). in such cases, we can return a blackhole metrics to prevent the subsequent operations works well.
3. When there are so many tables, metrics/ interfaces may have to return a lot of table metrics, resulting in too large response body. I chose to add a configuration to control whether to return table metrics.

What type of PR is this:

• BugFix
• Feature
• Enhancement
• Refactor
• UT
• Doc
• Tool

Does this PR entail a change in behavior?

• Yes, this PR will result in a change in behavior.
• No, this PR will not result in a change in behavior.

If yes, please specify the type of change:

• Interface/UI changes: syntax, type conversion, expression evaluation, display information
• Parameter changes: default values, similar parameters but with different default values
• Policy changes: use new policy to replace old one, functionality automatically enabled
• Feature removed
• Miscellaneous: upgrade & downgrade compatibility, etc.

Checklist:

• I have added test cases for my bug fix or my new feature
• This pr needs user documentation (for new or modified features or behaviors)
  • I have added documentation for my new feature or new function
• This is a backport pr

Bugfix cherry-pick branch check:

• I have checked the version labels which the pr will be auto-backported to the target branch
  • 3.4
  • 3.3
  • 3.2
  • 3.1
  • 3.0

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file detail

	path	covered_line	new_line	coverage	not_covered_line_detail
🔵	be/src/service/staros_worker.cpp	0	9	00.00%	[87, 88, 92, 93, 94, 95, 96, 97, 98]
🔵	be/src/http/action/metrics_action.cpp	1	3	33.33%	[132, 297]
🔵	be/src/util/table_metrics.h	4	4	100.00%	[]

[github-actions]

@Mergifyio backport branch-3.4

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backport branch-3.4

✅ Backports have been created

• #55910 [BugFix] add some defensive codes to table metrics (backport #55839) has been created for branch branch-3.4