add CMake presets #4668

Job	Run time
clang-format	18s
linux_clang-14_cuda-11.2_debug_analysis	13m 48s
windows_cl-2022_debug_analysis	17m 4s
macos_xcode-14.2_debug_analysis	30m 38s
linux_gcc-12_debug_analysis	13m 11s
macos_xcode-13.2.1_debug	1m 12s
macos_xcode-14.2_release	25m 44s
macos_xcode-14.3.1_debug	22m 1s
windows_cl-2022_release	17m 42s
windows_cl-2022_debug	13m 34s
linux_gcc-9_debug	13m 29s
linux_gcc-12_release_c++20	12m 19s
linux_gcc-13_debug	10m 3s
linux_clang-10_release	9m 21s
linux_clang-12_release	30m 20s
linux_clang-13_debug	7m 1s
linux_clang-16_debug_ubsan	9m 4s
linux_clang-16_debug_tsan	11m 40s
	4h 18m 29s

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