Write backwards compatible row group statistics (#3526)

[tustvold]

Which issue does this PR close?

Closes #3526
Closes #799

Rationale for this change

This helps with compatibility with pyarrow, which doesn't understand min_value yet apache/arrow#13976

What changes are included in this PR?

Are there any user-facing changes?

[tustvold]

Test failures fixed in #3528

[alamb]

I think this may also fix #799 filed by @tfiasco and which @pjmore also commented on

[alamb]

LGTM -- thank you @tustvold . I think this will be a very nice feature addition for othr users.

I had a bunch of naming / doc / style suggestions but nothing required I don't think

I also tested the reproducer from #799 from @tfiasco and the min/max values are properly written 👍

In [3]: 
   ...: import pyarrow.parquet as pq
   ...: f = pq.ParquetFile('/tmp//test.parquet')
   ...: print(f.metadata.row_group(0).column(0).statistics)
<pyarrow._parquet.Statistics object at 0x110118c70>
  has_min_max: True
  min: 1
  max: 5
  null_count: 0
  distinct_count: 0
  num_values: 5
  physical_type: INT32
  logical_type: None
  converted_type (legacy): NONE

In [4]: 

[tustvold]

I've updated the docs to hopefully be a bit clearer, PTAL.

I dropped the mentions of parquet v1, as I'm not entirely sure when the deprecation actually happened - the parquet changelog isn't particularly clear on this aspect...

[ursabot]

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[alamb]

Thanks @tustvold