[VL] Make ColumnarBatchSerializer supports relocation

[WangGuangxin]

Spark supports fetch the contiguous shuffle blocks in batch, which is enabled by default (by conf spark.sql.adaptive.fetchShuffleBlocksInBatch). This feature has a big performance improvement in our production.

However, currently, since ColumnarBatchSerializer's supportsRelocationOfSerializedObjects return false, so that this feature cann't take effect.
In fact, the arrow serialization does support reloation if we don't write schema (which is default to true) and don't write EOS (which is an optional in arrow rpc serialization format)

https://wesm.github.io/arrow-site-test/format/IPC.html#streaming-format

https://github.com/apache/arrow/blob/maint-12.0.1/cpp/src/arrow/ipc/message.cc#L496