make http listener ssl config swappable

[zhtaoxiang]

This is a follow up of #12277 (that PR makes tls keystore/truststore swappable) and #12325 (that PR makes query client and server auto reload tls keystore/truststore when they are local files)

This PR enables auto reloading tls keystore/truststore for http servers created using org.glassfish.grizzly.http.server.HttpServer

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Codecov Report

Attention: 11 lines in your changes are missing coverage. Please review.

Comparison is base (8c395ff) 61.73% compared to head (93e024e) 27.73%.
Report is 4 commits behind head on master.

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...org/apache/pinot/core/util/ListenerConfigUtil.java	0.00%	2 Missing ⚠️
...pache/pinot/common/utils/grpc/GrpcQueryClient.java	0.00%	1 Missing ⚠️
...che/pinot/core/transport/grpc/GrpcQueryServer.java	0.00%	1 Missing ⚠️

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