Support running DistSQL under Proxy Native in the form of GraalVM Native Image

[linghengqian]

For #29052.

Changes proposed in this pull request:

• Support running DistSQL under Proxy Native in the form of GraalVM Native Image.
• In order to directly collect the GraalVM Reachability Metadata of ShardingSphere Proxy through unit testing, we must directly start ShardingSphere Proxy without using the Docker Image.
• The most embarrassing part is that ShardingSphere Proxy cannot actually connect to H2database, which requires starting a MySQL container.
• The most awkward part of this PR is the splicing of DistSQL in org.apache.shardingsphere.test.natived.proxy.features.ShardingTest. Since we need to use the MySQL port of the MySQL container obtained from the testcontainers-java API, we always need to manually splice DistSQL instead of directly reading the .sql file. But the problem is that JDK8 does not have the concept of multi-line strings, which makes the related unit tests quite difficult to maintain. Maybe there is a way to write these unit tests under JDK 21.
• java.util.LinkedHashSet is a magical exception. Running ShardingSphere Proxy under GraalVM Native Image requires its constructor. Add it to extra-filter.json.

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[linghengqian]

• The focus of the current PR is a bit complicated, so it is necessary to temporarily split some irrelevant parts.