Enable stabilization of objects/lists going through loadMany/loadOne multistep

[benjie]

Description

Fixes #2170

Performance impact

Marginal performance cost for loadOne/loadMany calls that accept object/list specs.

Security impact

Generally an improvement I hope, though there's a risk of memory exhaustion attacks if this is not used sensibly.

Checklist

• My code matches the project's code style and yarn lint:fix passes.
• I've added tests for the new feature, and yarn test passes.
• I have detailed the new feature in the relevant documentation.
• I have added this feature to 'Pending' in the RELEASE_NOTES.md file (if one exists).
• If this is a breaking change I've explained why.

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Latest commit: b77f6e9

The changes in this PR will be included in the next version bump.

This PR includes changesets to release 15 packages

Name	Type
@dataplan/pg	Patch
grafast	Patch
graphile-build-pg	Patch
graphile-utils	Patch
pgl	Patch
postgraphile	Patch
@localrepo/grafast-bench	Patch
@dataplan/json	Patch
@grafserv/persisted	Patch
grafserv	Patch
ruru-components	Patch
@localrepo/grafast-website	Patch
graphile-build	Patch
graphile-export	Patch
graphile	Patch

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