feature: refactor/update newer vulkan memory allocator

[pollend]

I ended up moving things into wrappers so it was easier to update the api without updating fields and having to map those values in the binding and passing them over the foreign function interface. should make the process of updating the API easier in the future. I also fixed the unit test but I think I'm probably missing functions from the VulkanMemoryAllocator but this is still a bit of a wip.

examples:

 let create_info = vk_mem::AllocatorCreateInfo::new(&self.instance, &self.device, &self.physical_device);
 let allocator = vk_mem::Allocator::new(create_info).unwrap()

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 let mut allocation_info = vk_mem::AllocationCreateInfo::new()
        .required_flags(ash::vk::MemoryPropertyFlags::HOST_VISIBLE)
        .preferred_flags(ash::vk::MemoryPropertyFlags::HOST_COHERENT
            | ash::vk::MemoryPropertyFlags::HOST_CACHED)
        .flags(vk_mem::AllocationCreateFlags::MAPPED);