refactor: optimize comment reconciliation for better performance and efficiency

[guqing]

What type of PR is this?

/kind feature
/milestone 2.15.x
/area core

What this PR does / why we need it:

优化评论数据的调协过程以降低 Halo 启动时评论的调协耗时同时提高性能和资源利用率

Which issue(s) this PR fixes:

Fixes #5707

Does this PR introduce a user-facing change?

优化评论数据的调协过程以降低 Halo 启动时评论的调协耗时同时提高性能和资源利用率

[sonarqubecloud]

Quality Gate passed

Issues
0 New issues
0 Accepted issues

Measures
0 Security Hotspots
No data about Coverage
0.3% Duplication on New Code

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 34.28571% with 23 lines in your changes are missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 56.44%. Comparing base (5fdf6c0) to head (952e06c).
Report is 111 commits behind head on main.

Files	Patch %	Lines
...ava/run/halo/app/core/extension/content/Reply.java	0.00%	6 Missing ⚠️
...p/core/extension/reconciler/CommentReconciler.java	0.00%	6 Missing ⚠️
...app/core/extension/reconciler/ReplyReconciler.java	0.00%	6 Missing ⚠️
...ain/java/run/halo/app/infra/SchemeInitializer.java	75.00%	2 Missing and 2 partials ⚠️
...a/run/halo/app/core/extension/content/Comment.java	0.00%	1 Missing ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

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- Coverage     56.91%   56.44%   -0.47%     
- Complexity     3319     3335      +16     
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  Files           587      598      +11     
  Lines         18968    19367     +399     
  Branches       1401     1362      -39     
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+ Hits          10795    10932     +137     
- Misses         7594     7868     +274     
+ Partials        579      567      -12     

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[ruibaby]

/lgtm

[ruibaby]

/approve

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