refactor: add list options for sync all synchronizer

[guqing]

What type of PR is this?

/kind improvement
/area core
/milestone 2.17.x

What this PR does / why we need it:

为启动时同步添加 ListOptions 选项为后续保持 ExtensionMatcher 的纯粹做准备，后续将移除 ExtensionMatcher 中多余的方法声明，只保留 match 方法,最终的结果希望是

@FunctionalInterface
public interface ExtensionMatcher {
    boolean match(Extension extension);
}

以前构建 Controller 的写法

public Controller setupWith(ControllerBuilder builder) {
         return builder
            .extension(new Post())
            .onAddMatcher(DefaultExtensionMatcher.builder(client, Post.GVK)
                .fieldSelector(FieldSelector.of(
                    equal(Post.REQUIRE_SYNC_ON_STARTUP_INDEX_NAME, TRUE))
                )
                .build()
            )
           .build();
}

现在的写法

public Controller setupWith(ControllerBuilder builder) {
        var post = new Post();
        return builder
            .extension(post)
            // 当有新数据添加时
            .onAddMatcher(extension -> "fake-post".equals(extension.getMetadata().getName()))
            // 使用 syncAllListOptions 作为启动时同步的查询条件过滤不需要的数据
            .syncAllListOptions(ListOptions.builder()
                .fieldQuery(equal(Post.REQUIRE_SYNC_ON_STARTUP_INDEX_NAME, TRUE))
                .build()
            )
            .build();
    }

Does this PR introduce a user-facing change?

开发者相关：重构 ControllerBuilder 的匹配条件并增加 syncAllListOptions 作为启动时同步的查询条件

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 17.39130% with 19 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 54.75%. Comparing base (5fdf6c0) to head (283a686).
Report is 267 commits behind head on main.

Files	Patch %	Lines
...n/halo/app/extension/WatcherExtensionMatchers.java	0.00%	8 Missing ⚠️
...lo/app/extension/controller/ControllerBuilder.java	20.00%	6 Missing and 2 partials ⚠️
.../java/run/halo/app/extension/ExtensionMatcher.java	0.00%	3 Missing ⚠️

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[JohnNiang]

/lgtm

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