refactor: add builder for list options

[guqing]

What type of PR is this?

/kind improvement
/area core
/milestone 2.17.x

What this PR does / why we need it:

为 ListOptions 增加 Builder 以方便构建 ListOptions 对象,可以通过以下形式创建

var listOptions = ListOptions.builder()
                .labelSelector()// 构建 LabelSelector
                .eq("key-1", "value-1")
                .notEq("key-2", "value-1")
                .exists("key-3")
                .end()// 结束构建 LabelSelector
                .fieldQuery(equal("spec.title", "fake-title"))  // 构建 FieldSelector
                .andQuery(equal("spec.slug", "fake-slug"))
                .orQuery(equal("spec.slug", "test"))
                .build();

Does this PR introduce a user-facing change?

开发者相关：支持通过 Builder 来简化 ListOptions 的构建

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 57.62712% with 25 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 55.13%. Comparing base (5fdf6c0) to head (0358fad).
Report is 265 commits behind head on main.

Files	Patch %	Lines
.../main/java/run/halo/app/extension/ListOptions.java	56.75%	11 Missing and 5 partials ⚠️
...o/app/extension/router/selector/LabelSelector.java	57.89%	7 Missing and 1 partial ⚠️
...halo/app/extension/router/selector/SetMatcher.java	66.66%	0 Missing and 1 partial ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

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  Lines         18968    21234    +2266     
  Branches       1401     1491      +90     
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+ Hits          10795    11707     +912     
- Misses         7594     8924    +1330     
- Partials        579      603      +24     

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[ruibaby]

/lgtm

[JohnNiang]

/lgtm

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