[release-0.9] TAS: fix dropping of reconcile events for non-leading replica

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #3612

/assign mbobrovskyi

Fix dropping of reconcile requests for non-leading replica, which was resulting in workloads
getting stuck pending after the rolling restart of Kueue.

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[mimowo]

/kind bug
/lgtm
/approve

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