ci: use nvcc_wrapper in adiosKokkos

[vicentebolea]

fixes #3566

Taken from the comment added in the changes

  # Kokkos imposes us to set our CMAKE_CXX_COMPILER to Kokkos_CXX_COMPILER.
  # The problem is that we do not want this for the whole project and with
  # CMake we cannot set the CXX_COMPILER for a single target. The solution is
  # to move the adios2 module that uses Kokkos to its independent subdir and
  # set there CMAKE_CXX_COMPILER, which is possible (and scoped to that subdir)
  # in cmake.

[vicentebolea]

@anagainaru

[anagainaru]

Thanks Vicente for working on this. I will test this on Summit/Perlmutter/Crusher and come back to update the review

[anagainaru]

I tested the new script on the three systems and it seems to work everywhere ! Perlmutter with gcc 11.2 and cuda 11.7 gives some errors for Kokkos 3.7 but works starting with the patch on (it was giving the same error before this PR, I just didn't test with the vanilla 3.7 until now). Once we converge in the find_package we can merge this.

[vicentebolea]

@anagainaru fantastic work there checking where it builds/runs 👍 👍 👍

[anagainaru]

I realized that now we can always use g++ to build ADIOS2 and the Kokkos parts will use whatever we use to build Kokkos. I updated the HIP script.