Add session property to have connector optimizer apply on Values node

[feilong-liu]

Description

Currently, input node which is not a table scan, i.e. values node are considered as empty_connector_id, hence sub plans which have values node cannot be optimized by connector optimizer.
For example:

Join
    - table scan
    - values

this sub plan is not eligible for connector optimization

This PR adds a new session property, when enabled, sub plans which have values node will also be optimized by connector optimizer.

Motivation and Context

We have an internal connector optimizer which needs to work on the plans with both values node and table scan node.

Impact

Enable more flexible usage of connector optimizer. The default value of the new property is true

Test Plan

Existing tests

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General Changes
* Add a session property `include_values_node_in_connector_optimizer` to enable connector optimizer optimize plans with values node  :pr:`12345`

[rschlussel]

I think this makes sense. IMO we could even set this to true by default. I can't think of a good reason to exclude the values nodes from connector optimizers.

What do you think @jaystarshot @hantangwangd @aaneja?

[jaystarshot]

+1 the default should be true

[hantangwangd]

It's a great feature, and agree that the default should be true. I can't think out any disadvantage result by doing this.

[feilong-liu]

Changed the default value to true based on comments