Allow using stream-ordered and managed RMM allocators in benchmarks

[pentschev]

This change requires UCX 1.14 for async support from openucx/ucx#8623 and UVM fixes from openucx/ucx#8754 .

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Codecov Report

Base: 0.00% // Head: 63.84% // Increases project coverage by +63.84% 🎉

Coverage data is based on head (32f7903) compared to base (8c87288).
Patch coverage: 58.20% of modified lines in pull request are covered.

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dask_cuda/benchmarks/common.py	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
dask_cuda/benchmarks/local_cudf_groupby.py	0.00% <ø> (ø)
dask_cuda/benchmarks/local_cudf_shuffle.py	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
dask_cuda/benchmarks/utils.py	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
dask_cuda/disk_io.py	56.19% <ø> (+56.19%)	⬆️
dask_cuda/initialize.py	87.23% <ø> (+87.23%)	⬆️
dask_cuda/is_spillable_object.py	84.37% <ø> (+84.37%)	⬆️
dask_cuda/proxy_object.py	90.52% <ø> (+90.52%)	⬆️
dask_cuda/cli.py	86.40% <72.50%> (ø)
dask_cuda/utils.py	83.47% <82.35%> (+83.47%)	⬆️
... and 26 more

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[pentschev]

/merge