perf(chokidar): avoid fs calls on ignored files

[sun0day]

Description

There are will be some extra fs calls on the ignored files (e.g especially when generating .vite cache) in chokidar. I think we could optimize it. But I also notice that https://github.com/paulmillr/chokidar is less active now, so maybe we can add a pnpm patch for it.

This pr will avoid unnecessary calculations when ignored files change. I tested https://github.com/Lani/vite-2.7-slow before and after this pr. There will be 20-50ms faster after this pr when initial startup.

Additional context

I will send a PR to fix this upstream later. And once it gets merged, we can revert this and upgrade chokidar to the new one.

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[patak-dev]

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[patak-dev]

Histoire is failing in main, and I got the same error for Iles in #12572 (comment). This looks safe to merge.

Awesome work @sun0day! Let's merge it so we give time for folks to test this while we are in beta.