Replace old macros with consistent NGEN_WITH_FOO

[PhilMiller]

Replace all NGen-specific build condition macros that weren't in the current standard form in the codebase with the standard form.

Resolves #813

Testing

1. Local testing with various flags enabled/disabled
2. CI

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[PhilMiller]

Grrr, builds failing due to include paths for much of the codebase not reaching NGenConfig.h. Gotta play with CMake more to figure that out.

[donaldwj]

I had wanted this changed for a while, didn't ever have time to edit 50 files for it.