Fix restart configuration for services

[piemonkey]

Overview

I noticed these were wrong when testing a PR.

connected issues and PRs:

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Setup

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How to test/reproduce

Start the stack (prod config), restart the docker daemon (or your machine), see that the services start.
Then do the same with the dev config and see that they do not.

Challenges/uncertainties

I added the secure cookies config a while ago. I can't remember what problem it was to solve, but since it's on the dev config and it's on GN, I figured I might as well add it...

Checks PR readiness

• UI: works on smaller screen sizes
• UI: feedback for any loading/error states
• Check cancel/go-back flows
• Check database state correct when deleting/updating (especially regarding relationships)
• changelog
• no new deprecations